MANZINI – The death of a nine-month-old baby in Ndinda has drawn attention to the severe consequences of unresolved relationship problems within families. Melisa Dlamini, 25, is facing charges of neglect after her infant daughter, Shengwelihle Nothando Mabuza, was found dead, and her two-year-old son, Mukelo Mabuza, was discovered in a weakened condition
The incident, which occurred on October 5, 2023, has brought to light the distressing impact of domestic disputes on child welfare. Dlamini had been living with the father of her children at his family home in Ntondozi. Sources indicate that the couple was experiencing significant relationship problems, which allegedly led Dlamini to abandon her children. The children were later found by their grandmother.
Charges
Dlamini’s charges fall under Section 48 (1) (a) of the Children’s Protection and Welfare Act 6 of 2012, accusing her of unlawfully neglecting and abandoning her children. The case has prompted a broader discussion about the role of relationship issues in cases of child neglect and abuse.
Experts emphasize that unresolved domestic conflicts can create a hazardous environment for children. “Children often become the unintended victims of their parents’ disputes,” said a local child psychologist. “When parents are preoccupied with their issues, the children’s needs can be overlooked, sometimes with tragic outcomes.”
Advocates Rally for Stronger Family Support Systems
Community leaders and child welfare advocates are calling for more robust support systems for families facing domestic challenges. “This incident underscores the need for early intervention and counseling services to help families navigate their issues without compromising the well-being of their children,” said a representative from the Manzini Child Welfare Association.
In response to this tragedy, there is a growing push for increased awareness and resources to support parents in managing their relationship problems. “We need to provide parents with the tools and support they need to resolve conflicts constructively,” said a local social worker. “By doing so, we can help prevent neglect and ensure the safety of our children.”
As Dlamini’s trial approaches, scheduled for October 23, 2024, the community is left grappling with the heartbreaking reality of how relationship problems can escalate into crises that endanger the lives of children. This case serves as a sobering reminder of the importance of addressing domestic issues proactively to protect the most vulnerable members of society.
